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		<title>Comment on Flower Etiquette by Consuelo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Consuelo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 May 2013 13:20:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Я серфил он-лайн более чем три часов сегодня, Consuelo но еще Я никогда не находил 
любых увлекательных статей, как ваша. Это довольно отличная стоимость достаточно для меня. Мое мнение, если все веб-владельцы и блоггеры делали отлично также свое содержание, как вы сделали, веб будет, вероятно гораздо более помощи способным, чем когда-либо прежде.

Our best translation:  I surfed on-line more than three o&#039;clock today.  Consuelo never found any interesting articles like yours.  It&#039;s pretty great price which is enough for me. My opinion, if all web owners and bloggers made ​​good content as well like you did, the web will probably be much more useful and more capable than ever before.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Я серфил он-лайн более чем три часов сегодня, Consuelo но еще Я никогда не находил<br />
любых увлекательных статей, как ваша. Это довольно отличная стоимость достаточно для меня. Мое мнение, если все веб-владельцы и блоггеры делали отлично также свое содержание, как вы сделали, веб будет, вероятно гораздо более помощи способным, чем когда-либо прежде.</p>
<p>Our best translation:  I surfed on-line more than three o&#8217;clock today.  Consuelo never found any interesting articles like yours.  It&#8217;s pretty great price which is enough for me. My opinion, if all web owners and bloggers made ​​good content as well like you did, the web will probably be much more useful and more capable than ever before.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 8 Telephone Etiquette Tips by Syndi Seid</title>
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		<dc:creator>Syndi Seid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 00:35:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Marika:  It is rare anyone would answer a personal telephone by reciting their phone number.  However, I have heard it used by companies/businesses who do not prefer using a business name, yet wish to have the caller know they have reached the number intended.

In today&#039;s uncertainties, for personal phones it is recommended to simply say, Hello!, or whatever the appropriate equivalent is in various languages.  

There was also another old-fashioned style of saying &quot;Hello, Smith residence.&quot;  Even this in today&#039;s times is not preferred.  

You are correct, the textbook you were reading is most curious.  Hope this helps.  Syndi.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Marika:  It is rare anyone would answer a personal telephone by reciting their phone number.  However, I have heard it used by companies/businesses who do not prefer using a business name, yet wish to have the caller know they have reached the number intended.</p>
<p>In today&#8217;s uncertainties, for personal phones it is recommended to simply say, Hello!, or whatever the appropriate equivalent is in various languages.  </p>
<p>There was also another old-fashioned style of saying &#8220;Hello, Smith residence.&#8221;  Even this in today&#8217;s times is not preferred.  </p>
<p>You are correct, the textbook you were reading is most curious.  Hope this helps.  Syndi.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Saying “No Problem” is Not Proper Etiquette by Cam D</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cam D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 18:46:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You are not alone.  When I ask a colleague to do their job and provide me info I thank them when they provide the info.  90% of time I now get a &quot;np&quot;.     So now I reply &quot;Were you expecting there to be a problem?&quot;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are not alone.  When I ask a colleague to do their job and provide me info I thank them when they provide the info.  90% of time I now get a &#8220;np&#8221;.     So now I reply &#8220;Were you expecting there to be a problem?&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Comment on 8 Ways To Stay Sober at Social Events, Part 2 by V Clair</title>
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		<dc:creator>V Clair</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 07:28:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good info. Lucky me I came across your blog by chance (stumble upon). I&#039;ve saved as a favorite for later!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good info. Lucky me I came across your blog by chance (stumble upon). I&#8217;ve saved as a favorite for later!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Saying “No Problem” is Not Proper Etiquette by Borislav</title>
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		<dc:creator>Borislav</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 02:08:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Because I&#039;m bulgarian, I used to say it all the time. In bulgarian, one usually replies with &quot;За нищо&quot; which means &quot;For nothing&quot;. Another common response in bulgarian is &quot;Няма проблем&quot; which means &quot;No problem&quot; or &quot;No worries&quot;. I&#039;m trying to stop using it lately.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Because I&#8217;m bulgarian, I used to say it all the time. In bulgarian, one usually replies with &#8220;За нищо&#8221; which means &#8220;For nothing&#8221;. Another common response in bulgarian is &#8220;Няма проблем&#8221; which means &#8220;No problem&#8221; or &#8220;No worries&#8221;. I&#8217;m trying to stop using it lately.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Etiquette of Wearing a Hat by lhbham</title>
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		<dc:creator>lhbham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2013 16:56:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;ve read all the posts, and it tickles me that almost every one of them ranting against the practice of removing headgear indoors was written by a man.  I think the biggest consideration for removing one&#039;s cap/hat indoors is that it favorably impresses the women.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve read all the posts, and it tickles me that almost every one of them ranting against the practice of removing headgear indoors was written by a man.  I think the biggest consideration for removing one&#8217;s cap/hat indoors is that it favorably impresses the women.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Keeping Promises is Good Etiquette by Syndi Seid</title>
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		<dc:creator>Syndi Seid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 May 2013 02:26:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Dianne re: item, 2:  My initial take on this is... If your former client continues to invite you to share time with her, it&#039;s because she truly likes you and the lack of referrals in recent times may just be a sign of the times of &quot;no referrals to give&quot; and you are concerning yourself over something that may not exist.

That said, if you truly want to get her to stop inviting you, maybe: a) Ask her to stop inviting you, with the explanation... you most appreciative of the invitations, yet are terribly busy and aren&#039;t into taking time for dinners or walks these days and because you know each other for a long time, to please allow you to contact her when you are more free (...which may or may not ever arrive); or b) Ask your client again directly, &quot;(Name), is there a reason why I haven&#039;t been receiving any referrals from you lately? You used to send them most often. Have I unknowingly offended you in some way which has caused this? Reality is, as kind as your invitations are to dinner and walks, I&#039;ve hesitated to accept them because I am bothered by this question you&#039;ve not answered.  Until this is resolved---and please forgive me---I am uncomfortable sharing more time with you.&quot;  For me, as harsh as the above ideas are, I have always believed in honesty is the best policy, with kindness, respect, and consideration.  Anyone else got any ideas to help with this?  Good luck!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Dianne re: item, 2:  My initial take on this is&#8230; If your former client continues to invite you to share time with her, it&#8217;s because she truly likes you and the lack of referrals in recent times may just be a sign of the times of &#8220;no referrals to give&#8221; and you are concerning yourself over something that may not exist.</p>
<p>That said, if you truly want to get her to stop inviting you, maybe: a) Ask her to stop inviting you, with the explanation&#8230; you most appreciative of the invitations, yet are terribly busy and aren&#8217;t into taking time for dinners or walks these days and because you know each other for a long time, to please allow you to contact her when you are more free (&#8230;which may or may not ever arrive); or b) Ask your client again directly, &#8220;(Name), is there a reason why I haven&#8217;t been receiving any referrals from you lately? You used to send them most often. Have I unknowingly offended you in some way which has caused this? Reality is, as kind as your invitations are to dinner and walks, I&#8217;ve hesitated to accept them because I am bothered by this question you&#8217;ve not answered.  Until this is resolved&#8212;and please forgive me&#8212;I am uncomfortable sharing more time with you.&#8221;  For me, as harsh as the above ideas are, I have always believed in honesty is the best policy, with kindness, respect, and consideration.  Anyone else got any ideas to help with this?  Good luck!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Keeping Promises is Good Etiquette by Dianne Jacob</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dianne Jacob</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 May 2013 01:12:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[1. I was close to a younger client who called me her mentor. Our relationship went on for a few years and I met her whole family. Once her book came out, she stopped returning my calls and seeing me. She kept saying she would reschedule but didn&#039;t. It was very hurtful. A mutual friend suggested seeing her recently; and I told the friend that the client has blown me off and so I don&#039;t want to go. I felt bad about involving the mutual friend. I haven&#039;t heard from her since.
 
2. A former client used to send me a lot of referrals, but stopped. When I asked her about it, she wouldn&#039;t answer. That was 2 years ago. She keeps contacting me as though there&#039;s nothing wrong, but I am still angry about it. She wants to see me, she invites me to dinner, wants to go on walks, etc. How do I get her to stop?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1. I was close to a younger client who called me her mentor. Our relationship went on for a few years and I met her whole family. Once her book came out, she stopped returning my calls and seeing me. She kept saying she would reschedule but didn&#8217;t. It was very hurtful. A mutual friend suggested seeing her recently; and I told the friend that the client has blown me off and so I don&#8217;t want to go. I felt bad about involving the mutual friend. I haven&#8217;t heard from her since.</p>
<p>2. A former client used to send me a lot of referrals, but stopped. When I asked her about it, she wouldn&#8217;t answer. That was 2 years ago. She keeps contacting me as though there&#8217;s nothing wrong, but I am still angry about it. She wants to see me, she invites me to dinner, wants to go on walks, etc. How do I get her to stop?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Keeping Promises is Good Etiquette by Syndi Seid</title>
		<link>http://www.advancedetiquette.com/blog/everyday-life/keeping-promises-is-good-etiquette/comment-page-1/#comment-10490</link>
		<dc:creator>Syndi Seid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 May 2013 01:10:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here are my own stories about this months&#039; tip:  
1.  Years ago before digital cameras, my boss asked me to pick up photos he had processed at Walgreen&#039;s.  I used my own money to pay about $12 and to this day he has never paid me back.  I reminded him a couple of times, including the day I left being his assistant... and nothing came.  Also, another time I lent him a video which he never returned.  I thought we had a great working relationship and he was pleased with my work so the final blow was I asked him for a reference letter which he stated he would be happy to provide... three strikes and you are out!... which was and remains most disappointing.

2.  A professional colleague once gave me a referral for which I happily paid a commission.  Some time later, I reciprocated and was promised the same commission.  I never received a check, in spite of seeing this person a couple of times later, stating the check would be in the mail soon. It&#039;s obviously long forgotten in their mind by now, but not mine.

3.  A person whom I have known for years, every time we would see each other would say, I want to invite you to lunch some time.  My reply was always the same,  just send me a few dates and I&#039;d love to confirm one.  I never get the email.  Actually, I think one time we did get to a point of holding a round or two of emails where I even proposed a few dates.  Alas, nothing was returned.  

Case in point, most of these situations took place over ten years ago and I still remember them, waiting for the day they will be fulfilled... perhaps in my dreams!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here are my own stories about this months&#8217; tip:<br />
1.  Years ago before digital cameras, my boss asked me to pick up photos he had processed at Walgreen&#8217;s.  I used my own money to pay about $12 and to this day he has never paid me back.  I reminded him a couple of times, including the day I left being his assistant&#8230; and nothing came.  Also, another time I lent him a video which he never returned.  I thought we had a great working relationship and he was pleased with my work so the final blow was I asked him for a reference letter which he stated he would be happy to provide&#8230; three strikes and you are out!&#8230; which was and remains most disappointing.</p>
<p>2.  A professional colleague once gave me a referral for which I happily paid a commission.  Some time later, I reciprocated and was promised the same commission.  I never received a check, in spite of seeing this person a couple of times later, stating the check would be in the mail soon. It&#8217;s obviously long forgotten in their mind by now, but not mine.</p>
<p>3.  A person whom I have known for years, every time we would see each other would say, I want to invite you to lunch some time.  My reply was always the same,  just send me a few dates and I&#8217;d love to confirm one.  I never get the email.  Actually, I think one time we did get to a point of holding a round or two of emails where I even proposed a few dates.  Alas, nothing was returned.  </p>
<p>Case in point, most of these situations took place over ten years ago and I still remember them, waiting for the day they will be fulfilled&#8230; perhaps in my dreams!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Etiquette of Wearing a Hat by Syndi Seid</title>
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		<dc:creator>Syndi Seid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 May 2013 21:16:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Andy Costa:  To my knowledge you do not need to rise and take off your hat in your own home while watching a sporting event on your television or computer.  It&#039;s only when you are a part of the actual event taking place the respect of taking off your hat and rising is important.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Andy Costa:  To my knowledge you do not need to rise and take off your hat in your own home while watching a sporting event on your television or computer.  It&#8217;s only when you are a part of the actual event taking place the respect of taking off your hat and rising is important.</p>
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