
August
22nd has been designated "National Punctuation Day" by
my good friend Jeff Rubin. In his honor, and to celebrate this
important day, I am sharing a few solutions of my own on word and
punctuation usage.
One goal of
Advanced Etiquette is to make people feel comfortable and at
ease in social
situations. While proper punctuation and
word usage may not be directly related to having good manners and
etiquette, using language correctly is part of presenting yourself
to others with the best image possible. When you say or write something
incorrectly, it sends uncomfortable signals to the listener or
reader, similar to the screeching sounds of running your fingers
across a chalkboard—yipps! Using correct punctuation and
words will elevate your stature in both social and business situations.
1. It’s versus Its. “It” is
the exception to the possessive rule. Generally you add an apostrophe
to indicate
ownership. For example, this is Syndi’s newsletter.
“It's” breaks
the rule. It’s means "it is;" "its" is
possessive.
2. There
versus Their. Which
is correct?... “Cheryl
and Pam walked there dogs” or “Cheryl
and Pam walked their dogs.” Choose Door Number 2. There is
a location (among other meanings) but their is the pronoun
for more than
one person.
3.
Further versus Farther. Further means time or quantity,
as in, “He wished he could pursue the subject further.” Farther means
distance, as in, “He threw the ball farther down the field
than expected” and “New York is farther from Denver
than Omaha.” English being an ever-changing language, some
dictionaries now say these words are interchangeable. I find
this unfortunate;
to me these are, and should remain, totally distinct and separate
words.
4. Less and More are not Fewer and Greater. Less and more refer
to quantity. For example, “She filled the blue cup more (or
less) than the red cup.” Fewer and greater refer
to number. I am bothered every time I see “Express Line, 10 Items or
Less.” These signs are incorrect, which irritates me to no
end. The signs should read “Express Line: 10 Items or Fewer.” Every
time I see this, it makes me think about never returning to that
store. Their image as an educated, professional establishment goes
straight to the bottom of the list.
5. Zero or O. Zero is a number. O is a letter. While most people
are careful to type the right character, many folks are less careful
when talking. In speech, use the word zero to state a
number. For example, “the area code for San Jose, California,
is four zero eight.”
6. Stationery versus Stationary. Use your beautiful personalized
stationery to write a thank-you note for the business lunch; use
a stationary bike to keep in shape. Stationary means to stay in
one place and stationery refers to materials for letter writing.
7. Compliment
versus Complement. Give a compliment to a friend
whose jewelry complements her eyes. One refers to giving
praise and the other mean to have something match or “go
along” with
something else.
8. Hyphens and Dashes. A
hyphen is a very short horizontal line used between compound
words such as your telephone number and zip
code+4. To be correct, say the word “hyphen” not “dash”when
stating your telephone number and/or zip code+4. A telephone number
should correctly be stated as “area code 415-hyphen-346-hyphen-3665.”
A written dash
is a longer horizontal line used to set-off a comment or interruption
within a sentence. It is stronger than a comma and
less formal than a colon. Verbally, these kind of comments are
called “asides.”
For further
information on National Punctuation Day, see www.NationalPunctuationDay.com
Happy Practicing!
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