This month’s tip is a continuation of the September Tip on Rosh Hashanah.

Yom Kippur means “Day of Atonement.” For observant Jews, it is a time to ask forgiveness for sins against God. During Rosh Hashanah they asked forgiveness for sins against people.

Yom Kippur takes place on Monday, October 2, the 10th day of Tishri. It is treated as the Sabbath. For 24 hours, from Sunday night to after nightfall on Monday, observant Jews do not work. They observe the Five Prohibitions of Yom Kippur:

1. To emulate angels in heaven, they will not eat or drink, not even water (unless food, drink or medications are essential to preserve life).
2. They do not bathe or wash.
3. They do not wear scented perfume, deodorant, or lotion.
4. Some wear canvas shoes instead of leather.
5. They do not partake in marital or sexual activities.

Most of the day is spent in prayer at a temple or synagogue. Many wear white to symbolize purity. Some may wear a kittel, a white robe in which the dead are buried. 

Be sensitive to anyone you know who will be observing this important day. Do not criticize or make jokes about them “getting another holiday” so soon after one they may have taken for Rosh Hashanah.

Traditions within all cultures have time-honored meaning and purpose. I enjoy learning about different cultures and sometimes use their occasions to reflect upon my own life. Even if you are not Jewish, you might take this opportunity to reflect on your spiritual life this past year, to atone for any sins against your own God or higher power.

For other information on Yom Kippur and anything else you want to learn about the Jewish culture, check out www.everythingjewish.com

Happy practicing!

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